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Investigating the Role of Parental Discipline and Schematic Vulnerable Child Mentions in Married Students' Emotional Divorce: The Modifying Role of Coping Styles

Document Type : Original Article

Authors
leila shiri 1
hasan mirzahoseini 2
masoud rezaei 3
1 Islamic Azad University, Qom Branch
2 Department of Psychology, Qom Branch, Islamic Azad University, Qom, Iran.
3 , Department of Management and Economic, Science and Research Branch, Islamic Azad University, Tehran, Iran
10.22034/naes.2022.338556.1188
Abstract
Introduction: Today, in many societies, we see emotional divorce and formal divorce, which can cause negative physical and psychological effects on couples, their children or even society. In this regard, the present study was conducted with the aim of investigating the role of punitive parent and vulnerable child schemas in emotional divorce among students of Qom Azad University in the academic year 1399-1400.

Methods: The sample size was 298 people by available sampling method. The instruments used were the Guttman Emotional Divorce Questionnaire and the Andler and Parker Stress Scale. Data were collected and analyzed using hierarchical regression method in SPSS software.

Results and Conclusion: The results showed that the mentality of the punishing parent has a positive and significant relationship with the emotion-oriented coping style. Also, this mentality has a negative and significant relationship with the problem-oriented coping style. The mentality of the punishing parent has a positive and significant relationship with the avoidant coping style; This mentality also has a positive and significant direct relationship with emotional divorce. Vulnerable child mentality has a positive and significant relationship with emotion-oriented coping style. Vulnerable child mentality has a negative and significant relationship with problem-oriented coping style. Vulnerable child mentality has a positive and significant relationship with avoidant coping style; Vulnerable child mentality also has a direct and positive relationship with emotional divorce.
Keywords
Schematic mentalities
Coping styles
Emotional Divorce
Schema therapy
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  • Receive Date 20 April 2022
  • Revise Date 10 June 2022
  • Accept Date 19 May 2022
  • First Publish Date 19 May 2022
  • Publish Date 23 September 2022