بررسی الگوهای تعاملی سالم و ناسالم خانواده ( دافعه ها و جاذبه ها ی ارتباطی) از دیدگاه آموزه های دین اسلام در مقایسه با رویکردهای علم روانشناسی

نوع مقاله: مقاله مروری

نویسنده

کارشناس ارشد مشاوره خانواده، دانشکده علوم تربیتی و روانشناسی، دانشگاه شهید چمران اهواز، اهواز، ایران

چکیده

جامعه، از خانواده‌ها تشکیل یافته است ؛ از این رو سرنوشت جامعه، با سرنوشت خانواده، در پیوند است. بدون شک اگر زوجین در روش های ارتباطی مهارت داشته باشند ، می توانند خیلی از مسائل زندگی را حل کنند و از زندگی لذت ببرند و سازگاری بیشتری داشته باشند. قرآن کتاب هدایت است و کارکرد اصلی اش هدایت مردمان به سوی کمال است. این کارکرد قرآن و نیز سایر آموزه های دین اسلام ویژه مومنان نیست ، زیرا قرآن و آموزه های اسلام برای هدایت عموم مردمان است. بنابراین در بهره گیری از آموزه های دینی و کتاب قرآن و اثر گذاری آن تفاوتی میان مسلمان و پرهیزگار و غیر مسلمان نیست. اسلام تمام جنبه های زندگی اجتماعی انسان را مورد بررسی دقیق قرار داده است و دستورات آن میتواند راهگشای مشکلات انسان در جوامع مدرن باشد. نظر به اهمیت روابط اجتماعی و آموزش مهارت های ارتباطی برای آماده سازی افراد جهت رویارویی با دیگران و موقعیت های دشوار خصوصاً در بطن خانواده ، بر آن شدیم تا با تدوین مقاله ی مروری و مطالعه تحقیقات صورت گرفته در مورد الگوهای ارتباطی سالم وناسالم در خانواده از رویکردهای روانشناسی بپردازیم.

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موضوعات


عنوان مقاله [English]

A Study of Healthy and Unhealthy couples communication patterns (Repulsions and Attractive Communication) from the Perspective of the Teachings of the Islamic Religion in Compared to the Approaches of Psychological Science

نویسنده [English]

  • masud karimi vardanjani
Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz,
چکیده [English]

Society is made up of families; therefore, the destiny of society is linked to the destiny of the family. Undoubtedly, if couples are proficient in communication techniques, they can solve many of life's problems and enjoy life and be more adaptable. The Qur'an is the book of guidance, and its main function is to guide people to perfection. This function of the Qur'an, as well as other teachings of Islam, is not specific to believers, because the Qur'an and the teachings of Islam are for the guidance of the general public. Therefore, there is no difference between a Muslim and a pious and non-Muslim in using religious teachings and the Qur'an. Islam has carefully studied all aspects of human social life, and its precepts can solve human problems in modern societies. Due to the importance of social relationships and teaching communication skills to prepare people to face others and difficult situations, especially in the family, we decided to compile a review article and study the research on healthy and unhealthy communication patterns in the family from Let's look at psychological approaches.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Healthy and unhealthy couples communication patterns
  • Psychological approaches
  • The teachings of Islam
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